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Kino Escalation is the physical escalation of kinesthetics (kino) with a woman, from the initial touch to sex.

Kino is one of the most powerful nonverbal ways of communicating with a woman, and as such, is one of the key tools in the PUA’s toolbox. However, just randomly touching a woman will not necessarily get a PUA the results that he wants. Hence, there needs to be a logical progression to the escalation of kino.

Generally, one wants to begin kinoing by touching somewhere on a woman that is non-threatening and non-sexual. This is usually the hands or the shoulders, and can be done through hand shakes, high fives, playful pushes, etc.

As the woman grows accustomed to the PUA’s touch, he can then escalate to more intimate parts of the woman’s body, starting with the legs, then the torso, and finally the face and hair. From there, it is only a small step to go in for a kiss and move into direct sexual escalation.

While the above is a solid progression for kino escalation, it possible to skip steps along the process and jump directly into more intimate forms of kino, depending on the woman’s attraction and compliance levels. For example, it is possible to get into a sexual state and immediately go in for a kiss, without having previously established any kino. Making such a jump requires calibration, however, or it will result in a blow out.

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1) How comfortable the girl is with being kino’d DEPENDS 98% on YOU and how comfortable YOU are with it.

That means if you hesitantly take a girl’s hand, both of you will be intensely aware of the contact and it will just be fucking awkward. On the other hand, if you just grab it naturally, playfully, and start moving somewhere, most times the girl will unquestioningly follow you and be chill about it, because it shows YOU are NOT nervous, that YOU are a physical/sexual/cool/experienced person and NOT a FREAK.

2) Early on, you keep kino SHORT but FREQUENT. As things escalate, you LESSEN the frequency, but start getting MORE intimate/intense.

For example: when you meet a girl, don’t just smile and say “hi.” Fuckin stretch out your hand (naturally and without a trace of self-consciousness) and high-five her, but keep your fingers loose so if possible, you guys intertwine fingers. Then you drag the hand for and pull it for a SPLIT second, then LET GO. You detaching first shows that you’re very natural and used to physical contact. It shows that you’re confident. Also, from now on, she’s open to high-fives and hand-grabs from you.

Other examples: when you guys are laughing or she makes fun of you or whatever, you laugh and push her lightly. If she does something retarded or even if she doesn’t, you can just be like “omg, you’re so weird but, adorable…” *throw an arm over her shoulder, quick side-hug, then turn away, disconnect, do something else*

Any opportunity that you can, you should be touching and then cutting it off. It generates fast intimacy and makes you exude confidence/experience/flirtiness.

3) Kino amplifies state/mood. So you use it to physically support your cocky/funny, your push-pull, your flirting basically.

Ex: So I’ll be like “wtf? are you rich? nice! we’re getting married” *grab her hand* “can you cook? no? k sorry we’re broken up” *daintily place her hand on the table or something, like it’s a dead rat*

See how this works? You just use the kino to physically accompany your push-pull flirting. Because you touch on a high point (when both of you are enjoying a joke or the flirting) and then take away the touch on a low point (when you are verbally pushing her away) it makes her AWARE of the absence of your touch. It AMPLIFIES your flirting, establishing attraction MUCH faster.

These are the basics, as well as I can remember. If you want more, just ask I’ll lay out some more shit, like kino-pinging and games you can play to test her.


I’m still in college so I know how daunting it can be. I’m still meeting new people and sometimes, I can walk to and from class and not meet anyone I know on the way there. This is because I go to a school with like 6,000 per class, lol.

If you are a freshman, befriend people in your DORM man! Froshies in dorms get drunk and hook up with each other all the time, in the most random combinations.

Also, just join SHIT, like clubs and orgs. Really, this is the easiest way to meet people. You don’t even have to join EVERYTHING, just pick a handful that interest you and get to know people. For example, I’m in an Asian-interest fraternity, the boxing club, and the student paper. Every weekend, I am either doing fraternity stuff, partying w/boxing club ppl, or going to newspaper meetings/after-meeting parties. Seriously, in college, clubs = people meet to take care of club stuff, THEN PARTY. Join a sports team/physical hobby, so you can meet other dudes your age and they’ll hook you up with parties/chicks.

Just try to push yourself out of your comfort zone each day.

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You guys are way too slow to escalate. Like you’ve been in set for five plus minutes, and there’s no kino. What the fuck is this? Unacceptable. You have to make sure that it’s clear in her mind that your there for sexual reasons. None of this, let me build tension so that you’ll start chasing me. Fuck that, you want them to chase you, then go become a drag queen. It’s not in the feminine to chase. More clearly, it’s a very feminine trait to want girls to chase you. Instead, you should want to chase them, and have them open up to you. Now what the hell do I mean by that? Well, that means she will most likely not escalate kino with you. But, she will chase you in the sense that she will make it very easy to have her, very easy. But ultimately it’s up to you for the taking. Here’s what it should look like Insert PAP – past adventure projection ME: You know it’s been so long since we’ve seen each other, god, I’m so sorry I broke up with you. I mean I was such an asshole back then. Your bestfriend. My condolences…again. But you know what, it was great while it lasted **PUT YOUR ARM AROUND HER** — it’s that easy my friends. And, if she looks at you weird it’s because she wasn’t attracted to you. You have to have a slight bit of attraction to make it work. Also, remembe that some girls aren’t down for an emotional connection with a guy they just met. Happened with a girl I met recently, she was a pediatrician from Louisiana, do you think she was interested in getting to know me? Fuck no, all she wanted was to hook it up. Here’s how some of our conversations went: ME: I want to sumo wrestle you. Yup, I’m gonig to take you up to my hotel room and tape pillows around your stomach [touched her stomact], around your legs [touched her legs], and around your waist [touched her waist] and then we’re going to fight it out. But I’m going to win because I’m going to start going like this [started thrusting her like we were having sex] and you’re going to get all turned on and have sex. It’s stuff like that, and it’s all higher energy stuff. Which personally I love, and is one of the reasons why I have more and faster lays than almost anyone out there. BUT. Each style of game has it’s highpoints, so I don’t discredit. On some girls, there not down for the same night stuff, you can sense it in there energy, so it’s a slower work. Where you’re building trust, etc. Still need to escalate quickly. Always. escalate -> isolate -> extract -> venue change -> home That simple, but then again it has taken me four years to get to this point. So maybe it’s not that simple.

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